Certain people just can’t participate in discussions, whether it be because they are not capable of it anymore, because they are tired, because the words just don’t come or because they don’t make any sense for them anymore. Then, what’s left? There is an interesting option: offering relaxation body care to our loved one. Some may be uncomfortable with having such intimate contact because they don’t have the habit. Just trying it and seeing if we are comfortable and if our loved one appreciates it is so easy. In most cases, it is comforting to see the other smile, relax and be appeased. And it is oh so refreshing for the caregiver to give more than daily living care. Even if our loved one has never put cream on, it is never too late for a first time. Simply need to take a hydrating cream that smells good and gently massage the face, neck and arms. And even though they might not be used to this contact, men love it too!
If you have nail polish, another good idea would be giving a homemade mani-pedi and if you have blush, a little bit of makeup and a mirror will make your loved one feel beautiful! You can complete the care with the cherry on top: brushing their hair. A gentle hair brushing is a pure pleasure that your loved ones will definitely enjoy. You can even gently shave Mr. or cut Mrs.’s chin hair.
It is free, easy and can truly make a big difference for the caregiver and their loved one.